Here's how I handle comments:
- "Don't they need to socialize with kids their own age?": My kids socialize with kids of all ages as
well as adults. They are comfortable just about anywhere. They can
carry on a conversation with an adult and they can play with other
kids. But my biggest comeback to this is "Do you go to work and work
only with people your own age every day, or do you work with all
kinds of people of all ages?" School is the only place where we are
separated out to spend our days with people our own age. And
finally, my daughter went to public school for three months and came home
with every four-letter word in the book (all of them) and used them
on me.....that's not the kind of socialization I want for my
children.
- "Well, they have to go out into the world some day!
Yes they do
and I intend to protect my children from the cold cruel world as
long as I can. My parents did it for me and I'm sure yours did it
for you. For some reason nowadays we think that kids have to be
exposed to everything at a young age! Why? That's not how we grew
up, our childhoods were protected.
- "How can you teach them all they need to know?"
Well I made it
all the way through grade school, junior high and high school. I even
went to college and graduated summa cum laude. I went on to do a year
of work on a Ph.D. in marketing. I have a strong education! I have a
friend who didn't even graduate high school who homeschools her
children. In today's "information overload society" we can find
anything and everything we need. Got a question about how flowers
get pollinated? Look it up! Let your kids see you looking it up.
It's OK if you don't have all the answers, no one does.
- "Don't you need a break?" Yes!!! And I would love one. I don't
get many but when I do I take advantage of them. But my children and
family come first. My dear husband gives me time when I need it. I
go to a conference twice a year with my best friend. I have learned
how to have time to myself without being alone! After they all
go to sleep at night (yes, even my husband) I have time all to myself, and I use it!
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You Have To Make the Commitment
Once you make the commitment to homeschool you will be empowered to
face the obstacles and over come them.
You will eventually reach the point where you don't
care what other people think.
Remember, the winner of the National Spelling Bee is often a
homeschooler! Colleges are now seeking out homeschoolers!
Homeschoolers often score higher than traditionally schooled children on
the SATs! You are giving your child a gift from your
heart, your soul, and your brain! |